Monday, November 29, 2010

Rules for a happy marriage

Rules for a happy marriage


1 - NEVER LEAVE when you or your spouse are angry.

2 - NEVER sleep in separate beds. No matter how angry you are.

3 - Don't hold on to anger. Talk it out and let it go.

4 - Never go to bed with an argument unsettled.

5 - Always listen to your spouse; don't interrupt.

6 - Choose your words and tone carefully. They are two things that can never be taken back or healed.

7 - Have eyes only for your spouse both when you are with him/her, and when you are not.

8 - Remember: actions speak louder than words.

9 - Learn to be content in unchangeable circumstances.

10 - Pray together, and for each other.

11 - Go about your day and duties joyfully, rejoicing in the new day that God has blessed you with.

12 - Always be ready to offer encouragement.

13 - Always be ready to help your spouse without delay or complaint.

14 - Forgive immediately and unconditionally.

15 - Begin and end each day with "I love you" regardless of mood or circumstances.

16 - Always speak your mind, but tactfully.

17 - Always stand up for your spouse. Let things said about you roll off your shoulders, but do not stand silent when it comes to people criticizing your spouse.

18 - Hold hands.

19 - Write little love notes to each other.

20 - Do devotionals together.

21 - Don't complain. Instead, do something about it.

22 - Don't dwell on the past. Learn from it and move on.

23 - Manage time wisely.

24 - Live so that there will never be anything left unsaid.

25 - Remember, there is always middle ground. In the event of a disagreement, work together until you find it. (Reference numbers 3, 4, and 5.)

26 - MAKE time for each other.

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